ADRIA TENNOR - ACTING & PUBLIC SPEAKING COACH

I’m an actor (Mad Men, The Artist), filmmaker, and coach with 30+ years in the business, helping actors book work and bring great stories to life—and guiding entrepreneurs and execs to communicate like they actually mean it.I teach real tools: acting craft, vocal work, and grounded mindset practices that help you stop spiraling and start connecting. Whether you’re prepping an audition or gearing up for a big presentation, I’ll help you use what’s already working and build from there.This isn’t about chasing confidence. It’s about learning to trust the mess, speak from truth, and show up like you belong in the room—because you do.

Mar 07 • 2 min read

🎥 Your Casting-Worthy Demo Reel by May


Hi Reader,

I’m going to say something a little controversial: Almost every week I see an actor with a demo reel that is technically fine…

…but strategically useless.

The acting might be good. Maybe even GREAT. The footage might even look professional.

But the reel itself? ➡ A bag of Trader Joe's Trail Mix (the one without the chocolate chunks 😏 🍫).

• One scene says quirky best friend.
• Another says brooding A24 indie drama.
• Then suddenly we’re in a low-budget Star Trek knockoff arguing about wormholes in a spaceship corridor. 🪱

And then, for reasons no one can explain, there’s a student film scene shot in a kitchen with a ring light and a mysterious accent. 🤷🏼‍♀️

At that point the reel feels less like a strategy, and more like one of those Colorpop 30-shade eyeshadow palettes you buy because the colors look so pretty in the palette…but when you get home you realize none of them actually work on a real human face.

Individually? Some of the scenes might be great, but together it feels random. Like a See’s Candy sampler box.

You bite into one thinking “Ooh chocolate!” ...but it's orange cream, which is frankly one of the cruelest tricks the candy industry has ever played. 🤮

Then the next one is coconut.

Then something suspiciously beige that you can't quite place that turns out to be maple walnut and suddenly you don't trust a single piece in the entire box.

A demo reel shouldn’t feel like a bad mixed assortment.

It should feel strategic.

Like every scene was cherry-picked to lead someone down a very specific road.

Because here’s the truth: Hollywood LOVES to reward the actors who will their careers into existence.

Not the ones piecing together whatever scenes happen to exist like a cranberry-popcorn garland your five-year-old nephew made for Christmas in 1997.

Do you want to be in an A24 festival film? A surreal Apple TV comedy? A razor-sharp three-camera homage to Friends?

Great. Then let’s show that.

Your demo reel should communicate: “This is the world I belong in.” Not: “I contain multitudes. Please guess.

Or worse: “Here are some things I’ve done," which is essentially the acting equivalent of saying: “I brought snacks.”

This is exactly why I created the Casting DNA™ Signature Scene Cohort.

Because most actors are building their demo reels backwards.

They’re accepting whatever footage happens to exist.

• Random student films.
• A guest role from five years ago.
• A web series scene that kind of works.

Instead of asking the far more powerful question: What do I actually want to manifest in my career? And then creating scenes that telegraph that clearly.

Inside the cohort we do three key things:

• Identify your Casting DNA™
• Design a strategic scene blueprint
Create demo reel footage that clearly communicates you

Not random footage.

Footage that says: “This is ME.”

Because you don’t have to wait to book the Apple show. You can tape yourself on the Apple show — playing the role you were born to play.

If you want to see how the founding cohort works, you can check out the details here:

We start soon and I’m keeping this cohort intentionally small.

Either way, I hope this shifts how you think about your reel. You don’t have to just accept the hand you’ve been dealt.

You can design the signal. 🚥

Then own it.

Adria

PS. If your demo reel currently feels like a See’s Candy sampler, that’s actually great news. It means you have full permission to get strategic. Pick the world you want to live in. Then let’s create scenes that plant your flag there.

Casting DNA™ Spring 2026 Cohort

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I’m an actor (Mad Men, The Artist), filmmaker, and coach with 30+ years in the business, helping actors book work and bring great stories to life—and guiding entrepreneurs and execs to communicate like they actually mean it.I teach real tools: acting craft, vocal work, and grounded mindset practices that help you stop spiraling and start connecting. Whether you’re prepping an audition or gearing up for a big presentation, I’ll help you use what’s already working and build from there.This isn’t about chasing confidence. It’s about learning to trust the mess, speak from truth, and show up like you belong in the room—because you do.


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